Friday, February 13, 2009

Miscellaneous Thoughts on a Friday (the 13th)


No big theme or topic today (the previous topic would be fairly hard to top in the "big" department). Just some tidbitted items as they cross my mind this morning:

* The best thing about being in the horse world is its sense of community, and the circle of friends you earn. With horse people, empathy is never in short supply.

* For an example of what friends and empathetic treatment can mean to someone, read Comment #20 in the Over the Bridge post. It's from a friend most of you didn't know you were helping with the comments of your own.

* Among the personal-touch treasures I will keep with Tank's halter and lock of tail hair: A handwritten sympathy card from a staff member at AQHA, who read about Tank's last day on the blog.

* The chance to know a particular horse, all the way through to the end of a long life, is one of life's great gifts. It carries a big price, but no question that it's worth it.

* Perhaps, with the state of the horse economy and market as it's become, more owners will end up getting to have that experience. I'm picking up on a big attitude shift where horses are concerned, and it involves people's seeing them in a less commoditized way than throughout the rest of the horse's domesticated history.

* When I was growing up, keeping a horse around until it died of old age was not a common thing. Prevailing attitudes about animals were different then. But, the resale value of horses--any horses--was different then, too.

* Happy birthday, Dad. You know that big red dun gelding that came loping in a week ago? Throw a saddle on him and go rope a few steers. You'll have a ball. Rick and I guarantee it.


  
 

8 Comments:

At February 13, 2009 12:16 PM, Blogger Reddunappy said...

Oh Julie, your last comment brought tears to my eyes.
May there never be a heaven without horses!

 
At February 13, 2009 1:35 PM, Blogger Mikey said...

Aww geez, that last one... you're gonna make us all cry

 
At February 13, 2009 6:35 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

The last one - I'm glad I'm not the only one with that thought.

 
At February 14, 2009 2:49 PM, Blogger Holly said...

*sucks breath in*

wow Juli, that made me cry all over again....but in a better way....I'm sure Tank and your Dad are working together.....

sniff....wipes tears away.

 
At February 14, 2009 5:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Juli,
Sending Tank to your dad? A lovely thought. How I hope my dad is once again enjoying the little line back dun that was his favorite. Somehow it helps to keep that vision in mind.. it's nice to believe that we are all temporary here and 'just passing through.' Perhaps it does not matter how many legs we have as we move on. Sending hugs from TX....

 
At February 15, 2009 6:34 PM, Anonymous RhondaL said...

Hugs and good wishes from the Connecticut. Your dad got a beautiful gift.

 
At February 16, 2009 1:59 AM, Blogger Mom said...

My heart goes out to you. Thank you for writing so beautifully about Tank.

 
At February 16, 2009 6:08 AM, Blogger CTG Ponies said...

Thank you for this post. I lost my beloved first horse in July which broke my heart. The horses add so much to our lives.

 

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